We like to think that it will never happen. But deep down, we know that these things can happen to anyone. And then we start to think weird thoughts.
You are growing a little suspicious as your husband is coming home late regularly in the last 3 months. He has always come home on time. And it is getting very odd that he suddenly has so many overseas work trips to travel for.
It’s a very odd thing. People often end up with the same types of relationships no matter how many times they try to change partners. It’s as if the way we are attracted to others is continuously consistent.
Some mysterious force just keep bring to the same types of romance into our lives.
Which is a reason why a lot of people cannot imagine being in an abusive relationship for example, and has never been in one. Yet when someone finds himself or herself in one, the odds are high that the situation will repeat itself with other partners.
The same with relationships infiltrated by third parties.
If a woman tells you that her boyfriend cheated on her, you may find that the same occurred with the boyfriend before this. And also the boyfriend before that.
When being cheated on is a recurring even in life, then there is a high possibility that it is indicated in the bazi
Here are 3 bazi setups that indicate a high potential for third parties getting involved in your marriage or relationships.
1) When the element similar to self-element is unfavorable and there is a lot of it in the bazi
For women. This indicates that your friends might be the ones trying to tempt your husband. Especially when there is a single husband/boyfriend in the bazi.
2) When there are a lot of combinations involving the day pillar
The day stem or day pillar being pulled into all types of directions should be a clear indicator that your marriage will not be on steady ground.
3) When your spouse’s bazi has the day pillar repeating itself
This is an indication of possibly more than 1 marriage in his or her life. Of course if that marriage had already happened in the past, then you are safer.
4) A lot of earth in early branches of partner, including the day branch
There are a lot of hidden stems in earth branches. An indication that relationships are messy.
5) When the day branch combines with the husband/boyfriend element
Combinations involving the day branch is not common, it’s even more uncommon for the combination branch to be the husband/boyfriend element.
Open communications are essential in harmoniously happy relationships. Try being open and talk to your partner about what he or she has been doing lately. Be genuinely curious. A lot of times, you will discover that you are thinking too much. And these open communications can actually build a deeper understanding you have with each other.
Finally, please be aware that just because your bazi shows that the possibility of your spouse having an affair is high, it does not meant that it is true. There may be other factors at work that disarms these configurations. For example, maybe his or her bazi counters the spouse infidelity setup in your bazi. Or his or her bazi does not support such actions.
Furthermore, even if your bazi has such setups, and it turns out correct, your spouse can also reject all advances of third parties. The opportunities will arrive. Whether to fall victim to it is a personal chocie.
