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Along with the famed peach blossom that attracts romance luck, a lesser known plant that’s as effective goes about it’s business fairly quietly without much fanfare.
That is the peony flower.
Such is the apex stature of the flowering plant for it’s beauty that it is widely considered as the Queen of all flowers in China.
Being a species with a variety of colors, it signifies youth, romance and even lust.
But among all it’s beautiful color, the red flower is most revered for it’s ability to incite passion and desire.
It’s no coincidence that the legendary concubine beauty that is Yang Gui Fei (杨玉环) is likened to a peony flower. Stories of her also depict her using the luscious display of mountain peony in her room to keep the emperor fixated on her.
Even the white peony is often used as a herb supplement for those wanting to improve their fertility.
In Chinese culture, parents were known to display peony flower paintings in the living room for it’s mystical powers in bringing eligible suitors for their daughter’s hand in marriage.
While the more prominent stories of the use of peonies to attract love concerns women attracting love. Men can also benefit from it in love and romance as well.
From a cultural perspective, the peony is also highly regarded as a symbol of prosperity and often depicted in auspicious paintings.
When painted with a rooster, it means scholastic achievements and prosperity.
It also carries deep connotations with prosperity when depicted with fishes, crabapples or egret.
When pictured in a vase accompanied by bamboo, it represents peace and prosperity.
There’s also a folklore about the peony’s run-in with Empress Wu ZeTian (武则天) which led to the flower being banished to the mountains of Luo Yang… where it flourished. This led to the common saying that peonies in Luo Yang are the finest in the world.
Peonies and feng shui
Some feng shui academics actually determine that women who use them attract men in quantity, while men would attract women of quality.
That is of course, up to debate.
If you intend to use it for yourself or your children, do note that it has a high potency for inducing “passionate” behavior when overdosed.
For this reason, as soon as you or your daughters are attached, it is best to remove the picture displays and monuments with red peonies.
Otherwise, you will just be encouraging suitors to knock on your own door, potentially sending your relationship into a tailspin.
This also implies that married couples should refrain from hanging paintings of red peony flowers in the house, especially the bedroom.
This can potentially drive the desires of the husband wild and cause him to seek relief from other women.
For parents who are trying to play a part in helping their daughters of marriageable age find a life partner sooner, placement of peony flowers should be in the living room.
Having them as art on porcelain ware would be good too.
If you are using it for yourself, then decide for yourself whether it’s appropriate to place them in the bed room.
Just be mindful of the warnings mentioned earlier.
If you don’t want to display them in the house, you can consider carrying them with you in the form of key chains, pendants, amulets, or earrings.
If you choose to go this route, remember that red is the color to go with for effectiveness.
In 8 mansions feng shui, the yen nien sector is where you should place it.
If your youngest daughter is the subject, then the Tui trigram at the southeast is best place to locate it.
You might be amazed at how potent this symbol of romance is. Just be careful with what you ask for.